
Last week when New Jersey was hit with two snow storms, one after the other, I started lamenting over the seemingly perpetual winter. In fact, pretty much everyone I knew started to grumble about it. So at the end of the week when I started to draft this post complaining about the “grey-ness” and the freezing 20°F temperatures, I found the following quote.
Nature looks dead in winter because her life is gathered into her heart. She withers the plant down to the root that she may grow it up again fairer and stronger. She calls her family together within her inmost home to prepare them for being scattered abroad upon the face of the earth. ~Hugh Macmillan, “Rejuvenescence,” The Ministry of Nature, 1871
I am thankful for winter. In fact, I love winter. I really do. I love that I live in a part of the country where we have four seasons and that we have snow. To wake up and to see a winter wonderland right outside your window is a magical moment. And to me, it never gets old. Even when I want winter to stop, there’s no denying the breathtaking beauty of clean and white newly fallen snow.
There is nothing in the world more beautiful than the forest clothed to its very hollows in snow. It is the still ecstasy of nature, wherein every spray, every blade of grass, every spire of reed, every intricacy of twig, is clad with radiance. – William Sharp, poet
And there is something about winter that causes me to be more introspective and reflective. The cold grey days and snow covered landscapes offer very little distraction. Winter has a simple beauty. It is uncomplicated. Even my wardrobe reflects that. Black and grey. And I suppose I “gather into my own heart” and I think. I dream. I pray and I imagine.
But there is also the harshness and austerity of winter. It’s cold. It’s dark. It’s bleak and dreary. Snow turns into slush. Rain turns into ice. It’s dangerous out there! And it seems to last forever. Often times during winter, our family is bombarded with sickness. During these times, we are forced to meet these challenges with qualities like perseverance and spunk, a “stick-to-itiveness” that is needed to endure the often times monotonous, tedious, and hard days of winter.
Having a grateful heart always carries me through those times and instead opens my eyes to the wonder and beauty of winter. As a family, we actually enjoy (most of the times) being cooped up together. What kid does not like snow days? Board games, puzzles, Nerf gun fights, Age of Empires, ps3, and big epic movies are some of the things that we enjoy as we fight off the winter doldrums. And I must include warm hot chocolate with big marshmallows.
So looking back over the last few months, I am thankful. I am thankful for the lessons winter teaches me every year. During each winter, I am like the plant that nature “withers down to the root that she may grow it up again fairer and stronger.” I am ready to be reborn with the spring.

If you would like to share your version of “Thankful Thursday” (photos or text or both) today or in the future, you can link your post to my post on Thursdays in the comments section. Have a wonderful Thursday!
March 12, 2015 at 10:05 am
Love it! GREAT perspective! 🙂
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March 14, 2015 at 7:25 pm
Thank you so much Jodi!
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March 12, 2015 at 10:14 am
Beautiful thankful words and photos! Love it. 🙂
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March 14, 2015 at 7:25 pm
Thank you so much Amy!
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March 12, 2015 at 10:37 am
I am the same way about falling snow, The sounds and feelings that it brings inspires me to share many thoughts 🙂
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March 12, 2015 at 1:22 pm
Beautifully said 🙂
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March 15, 2015 at 12:28 am
Thank you so much Joan!
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March 12, 2015 at 8:41 pm
This was exceptionally well-thought and well-communicated, Marites.
How easy it is to ‘grumble’ and miss the blessings in so many of life’s moments. I admit to not missing the ice and snow, and I have wonderful photos to celebrate the beauty it does afford. Still, “youth” has advantages, and I’m grateful you are modeling the JOY in all things for your family. It is always NOT easy, I know, yet you and Greg do it with so much Grace!
Thank you for letting us glimpse some of it!
Love, Carleene
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March 15, 2015 at 12:29 am
Thank you so much Carleene! I shared your comment with Greg as well. God bless you!
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March 12, 2015 at 9:15 pm
Awesome post. While I’m not a fan of the cold, I believe there is beauty i every season. We live on the Virginia coast and get to experience each of the seasons and I wouldn’t change that !!
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March 15, 2015 at 12:29 am
Thank you so much Nora!
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March 12, 2015 at 10:08 pm
Love your take on winter. It may be harsh and frigid to the bone but there’s much to like about it too. I’m a summer person, dread the cold, but I like the calmness that comes with it. Not only we reflect, but we appreciate what we have around us. That is great that you play ps3 when it’s too cold to go outside. Hope your kids love it 😉
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March 15, 2015 at 12:31 am
Thanks Mabel! My kids are the ones who really play the ps3. I play sometimes. 🙂
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March 12, 2015 at 11:50 pm
You have a wonderful way with words, and found the perfect explanation of just why we have to have winter at all. Thanks for opening my eyes. I’m sad that I grumbled about the cold, the ice, and anything else that came to mind these past few months. This week, I’m thankful for a foundation that helps protect our natural environment. https://pattisjarrett.wordpress.com/2015/03/12/thankful-thursday-lwcf/
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March 15, 2015 at 12:32 am
Thank you so much Patti! We have ALL grumbled about the cold and ice. It’s been tough. Thank you for sharing your Thankful Thursday!
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March 14, 2015 at 3:01 pm
I love winter as well and I miss that we used to have four seasons, but lately winter has been a strange run-on of autumn with really cold spring at the other end. We have some snow, but not what we had when I was little. I am grateful for it as well though because we’ve had a lot of things come up these last few winters for us and if we had as much snow as I remember having as a child then we’d be in even worse straights than we have been.
Here is my offering: https://martha0stout.wordpress.com/2015/03/12/oatmeal-y-goodness-thankful-thursday/
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March 15, 2015 at 12:34 am
So glad you are able to see the bright side of things Martha. I hope you are settling in ok in your new place. Thank you for sharing your Thankful Thursday!
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March 15, 2015 at 7:38 am
Gorgeous photos and a wonderful reminder that there is beauty to be found everywhere, even when we are more inclined to complain.
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March 17, 2015 at 10:23 am
Wow, great post! Looking for things to be thankful for can certainly brighten a dark day.
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March 25, 2015 at 10:23 pm
Thank you so much! Thank you for stopping by and commenting! 🙂 Have a wonderful Thursday!
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March 19, 2015 at 2:36 pm
Love Winter, what a refreshing post, best wishes and love to You 🙂
https://embracingtheone.wordpress.com/2015/03/19/thankful-thursday-direction/
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April 8, 2019 at 3:54 pm
I also live in NJ and we had quite a few small little snow squalls here in the south of the state, but luckily nothing too big. Today is a glorious April day and it finally feels as if Spring is here.
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April 12, 2019 at 12:10 am
Hello! I really would of loved a big snow storm like the one I blogged about in this post (March 2015) during this past winter. Maybe we had a little more snow than you (in North Jersey) but it didn’t add to much.
Today, it was a bit chilly up here but the sun did come out which was a heart-cheerer. Thanks for checking out my blog and for commenting!
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April 12, 2019 at 8:37 am
You’re welcome. Have a great weekend.
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